Even our resilient and positive mother, Janet Preisel, pictured above, felt a bit down from the health challenges of dealing with cancer. Our father and she had previously retired to North Carolina, and they lived right down the road from her middle child, Colleen. Her bratty youngest, AKA Karin, searched for a way to offer support from New York to Mom between our visits, and "101 Days of Sunshine" was born. Seeing how uplifting it was, I began to write "Bridge to Reminisce" to support Mom from Pennsylvania. The two blogs are related, just like Karin and I are, so I have them linked. An avid reader all her life, Mom enjoyed our amusing stories and would eagerly await new posts. Before she passed, our most supportive fan asked that Karin and I both continue to write after she was gone.





Friday, March 10, 2017

Magnolia

Magnolias were my mother's flower.


Scotty Joe riding my bike in front of the magnolia tree on Luelda Ave


Our first house with a yard in Parma, OH, on Luelda Avenue came with a large pink magnolia shrub in the front yard.  It had long narrow blooms that reminded me of candles. My mother loved its exuberant and excessive celebration of spring flowers, which are never hidden by leaves.

Pink magnolia in bloom

Unfortunately, when that type of magnolia shed its blooms, they were sticky.  Perhaps this is why Google Earth reveals that the bush has not survived remodels with new landscaping.


My sister, Colleen, standing by Mom's PA white magnolia on First Communion
 
However, my mother took her love of magnolias with us- there was always one in the yard where she lived. We had a white magnolia in Pennsylvania.

Wendell August Forge Magnolia pattern coaster

While she worked at Wendell August Forge, my mom gave me a metal spoon rest with magnolias on it.

Mom's NC magnolia in the background of the Christmas cut-outs she made and painted.  She was so talented, but appreciated a good laugh, so we teased her by calling this her "Touchdown Joseph."

When they retired to North Carolina, I think it was her sister-in-law, Tami who bought her another white magnolia as a housewarming present, which did very well in the south.


In my yard, "Dancing Butterflies"

"Dancing Butterflies" opened

I found my own, a yellow magnolia called "Dancing Butterflies." It started as a small shrub that is now about 10 feet tall. My mother enjoyed that she had passed her love of them down to me. While mom was being treated at Duke University hospital, our walks revealed the campus is full of huge southern magnolias.  Those full trees were comforting to see at that stressful time.

Southern Magnolias on the campus of Duke University and Hospital

I still think of my mother every time I see a magnolia.